5 WAYS A HUSBAND SHOULD LOVE HIS NEWLY WEDDED WIFE

A wise man once said that there is a gap between Expectation and Manifestation and this gap is bridged by Hardwork. It takes work to accomplish anything in life and when one works against the trend and the tide, more energy is expended which adds HARD to the word WORK. Here are 5 tips to newly weds on how the husband should love his wife:

1. DO UNTO HER WHAT YOU WANT HER TO DO UNTO YOU: When we get newly married, it is a new experience (especially for those doing it for the first time) and the wide-eyed bride would want the euphoria of the Courtship and the sweet love-making of the first night of marriage to continue. Above all, she wants to follow your lead since you are are head. Do only the things you want her to copy from you.

2. DO NOT TAKE HER NAIVETY FOR STUPIDITY: Women are wise beyond what they appear to be and they are very perceptive. Try not to play on her ignorance but rather teach her the things she does not know with all patience and love.

3. DON'T PRETEND TO BE WHAT YOU ARE NOT: You have married her and the time for being a braggart is over. Marriage is reality and it is only when both of you work together that you can make it. That is why if you have need of some counsel , do not brainstorm with your friends, try it with your wife and you will be amazed at the insight she has!

4.LEARN HOW TO SATISFY HER SEXUALLY: Sometimes, the man may think that a woman does not need her orgasms. What a misconception!! Prior to what people think, orgasms are meant to be enjoyed IN MARRIAGE but people have learnt to steal, outside marriage, what should be enjoyed in it. Learn how to satisfy her sexually every time.

5. DO NOT KEEP ANYTHING ABOUT YOU SECRET FROM HER: Women have their ways of finding out secrets and when they do. they feel betrayed and unloved. Try to be open to your wife and let her know what happens to you and how you need her help to deal with it. This makes her feel special and NEEDED and you will see her blossoming in the marriage.

There are so many others covered in my book: HOW TO LOVE YOUR WIFE by The Rev. Kelechi Timothy Francis (Coming soon to your bookstands). Have a sweet married life...